The Cause of Relationships

We often believe that relationships works on adjustments. I too keep saying the same to my clients. But the incident that happened with me was a real alarm to my belief of adjustment.

"How much to adjust? What should be the ratio of adjustment? Why only me all the time to adjust?"

​​​These are some regular and relevant questions which generally arises amid situations. Answer to these questions are not driven yet. Same happened with me. I thought my adjustment is taken into granted and my ego is being challenged. This added up to my anger and was uncontrollable.

At the same time, we need to take a step back and let go off. Only one solution to the above asked questions could be The Cause of Relationship. ​​​At the end of every argument, we tend to think, "was it necessary?"

Actually we shall think this before entering into any type of argument, then the outcome will be altogether different. I know it is very difficult to give up with our precious ego and allow our opponent to win. But mind it your opponent is your own family member/ friend with whom you are supposed to spend your valuable time span. So it's worth giving up with ego and focus on strong bonding with each other.

I realised one thing. Whenever, I feel that my ego is not satisfied or fulfilled and I am above to enter some argument, I shall give up. Some situations and topics are useless to discuss as they carry no value in my life. This makes me feel mature and give me mental strength with peace.

Thank you.

Posted By : Kajal